Lest We Forget.

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Lest We Forget

Today marks the 100th year anniversary of when the shooting stopped and the guns were laid down to mark the end of the First World War.


Remembrance Sunday is always a landmark day in my calendar – because in my eyes it shows great respect, honour and tribute to a generation that gave everything they had to give us our future. At heart I am a Royalist and Patriot – but sadly saying such things like thatImage result for first world war colour film gif now days open up connotations of racism and narrow-mindedness and that is something I don’t stand for and I can imagine the Men and Women that gave their lives 100 years ago wouldn’t stand for it either.

This post is not about today’s politics, today’s situation or location in the world. But about respecting and honour the biggest sacrifice for the greatest good.


As found on the Royal British Legion website it tells us the Poppy is; A Symbol of Remembrance and Hope worn by millions of people. The story of the Poppy comes from Flanders fields in Belgium. The Poppy was the first flower to grow in the freshly churned ground of soldiers graves and inspired the poem “In Flanders Fields” by Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae after visiting the site and grave of his friend and fallen soldier.

Image result for ww1This day is such a big part of our history, not just nationally for our country but also internationally for world history, which deserves the utmost respect and honour. Each year I go to town and watch the parade. Seeing the different factions of the forces come together to march for the service is always overwhelming and beautiful.

So please take this moment to pause and think of the people who gave for us. To show respect and give a two-minute silence in their name.

 


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One final note I would like to add – Blackadder Goes Forth, the final season of this show was set on the Western Front during the WW1 and even though it’s a comedy the final episode pulled out the stops and become a beautiful homage to the war, the lost and the fallen. Every time I watch the final scene where they are preparing to go over the top I get choked up. Because the script, the acting and the tone of that whole episode is perfect. The ending see the cast in slow motion filter into black and white image of the battlefield and then filters into a shot of a Poppy field in vibrant red.

If you are not sure on what I am talking about give this a watch.


Thank you for sharing this moment with me, no matter what your thoughts or feelings are on today, I am glad you stopped to take in mine, have a moment of reflection and just absorb the true magnitude of the day.


They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning,
We will remember them.

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Happy November.

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This is it guys, Halloween is over – time to pack the pumpkins back in the box, hang up your fangs and pop those sexy cat ears back in the draw for next year.

But don’t be sad – this is a good thing. Because now we are in NOVEMBER! And this means, Fireworks, Bonfires, Remembrance Day, GF’s Birthday, Christmas Markets and the countdown to Christmas itself!

I love this time of the year and I think this is also a great chance to start the season of with some festive loving and blog sharing.

I’ve hand selected three bloggers that I want to share with you all (it was hard to pick as if I could I would share and write about all my followers, as they are amazing people) but for this moment here are three that I strongly suggest you check out, follow and make friends with.


Nicole

 

Nicole – My Superhero Cousin with the Irish Blood. – What an absolute gem, kooky, crazy, funny and sweet. Sometimes she needs a wee boost of pick me up. But we all do every so often. Nicole is real, her photography on Insta are amazing and just all round swell gal. Go check her out and say hey. Twitter, Blog, Instagram.

 

 


Abbie 🐢🌱

 

Abbie – If I were King Arthur she’d be my Holy Grail, amazing, captivating but out of reach. Geographically we are miles apart. But that doesn’t stop me from loving everything about her – nailing Blogtober like a boss, rocking a new quirky hair style or sipping gin. The list goes on. She is incredibly supportive and well worth a good follow. Twitter. Blog. Instagram.

 

 


Matthew

Matt – My man! The lad. I don’t know about you dude, but I bet we’d be great drinking buddies in another life. If it’s not takeaways, his dogs or suits he is posting some stunning photography and my god I mean it’s something amazing. Well worth a follow if you ask me. Twitter. Blog. Instagram.

 

 

 


Also for any of my Insta / Twitter fans you will see I dressed up as POTUS Donald Trump. Which was awesome, so much fun and as we know I love dressing up. Didn’t I mention it [Yes, Here] – anyway here is me and then here is the results of the voting from the office competition.

I WON!

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Let me know what you love to do in November, I might try to take on some new traditions. Answers on a postcard please.

 

The News! An update of what I’ve been doing.

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So over the past few months I’ve dropped in content. The Man Vs Movies series dried up, I missed self set deadlines and I just couldn’t find time for the blog. I was worried about the how my lack of presence would affect the community. Not that I am a role model, but more would this be it, would I be forgotten for the newest trend. I know right, silly thoughts but they were there. So I clawed back as much time as I could and put out what I could when I could and just keep up with people. But I soon remembered the blogging community is one of the most supportive groups of people ever. I could vanish for six months, come back and still have an amazing group of people checking in on me.

The reason behind this was because I was spending my time filling out a shit tonne (I believe that is the correct unit of measurement) of paper work and having meetings for our latest adventure. This is the pinnacle of Adulthood life and just what this blog was built for.

Because we have just bought a house!

(Pause for applause)


On the 26th June at 5.30pm me and the GF went to view a house. A lovely 3 bed semi-detached in a nice area of town. Garden, Garage, Driveway. For the area, size and price, it was a steal. So we put an offer in and the following day it was accepted.

This is just the start of the journey, 4 months/16 weeks later (on the 26th) we have finished, exchanged, got the keys and began our next chapter.

Getting there was hard and at times mentally draining on me. As we were selling her flat to buy this we decided she would deal with the appropriate people for that, as it’s a Shared Ownership property (which I recommend people avoiding, as it was a nightmare to get out of and the hidden fees and ‘Oh to get that you need to pay this’ were for stupid reasons), while I was to deal with the Solicitor on everything else.

I don’t want to go into the boring, long-winded details. I have already bored and ranted at friends, family and co-workers on this for the past 4 months, I want to spare you that pain. All I will say is it’s a simple process that seems to attract useless people. There is no need for the process to take as long as it does and in turn cause as much stress as it does.

There were days I would say to my GF that I was genuinely worried about my Mental Health – and I like to think I am a strong character. But some of the people involved in this just set out to be ignorant and useless. But I am good now. I only ranted and snapped at the solicitors twice. Which is good going isn’t it.


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Now it’s all hands on deck. We have a lot of work ahead of us but it’s going to look amazing when we have finished.

It kind of means Christmas is on hold and going to be stupidly cheap. Because paint and curtains is a priority over presents sadly. But if anyone is wondering what to get us. Vouchers for The Range, Dunelm Mill and Next Home would be spot on.

It’s such a relief to have this completed, it ticks something of my 30 before 30 list – getting on the property ladder and it’s the next step in my relationship with the GF. Oh and it’s good to be able to let you all know finally, it was hard keeping it from twitter – I think secretly a handful of you knew but now I can share the love and tell you all properly.


Next step – Right from the off the GF stepped in with her interior decorator hat on and threw ideas, colour palettes and swatches at me. So we made a compromise. I am such an easy-going guy and usually like what she picks out, but I wanted 3 spaces that I can decorate, decide on and have control of – she can have the rest of the house, but I wanted the Garage, Garden and third bedroom (smallest of the three). The deal was struck and pow we have harmony.

So as you read this I am probably up to my eyeballs in paint, tools and old tiles. I have to rip the bathroom floor up pretty quickly and we have to get the whole house painted as the carpet man comes in a couple of days to lay the new carpet. So it’s literally all hands on deck. If you are wanting to give us a hand by all means popover, there will be pizza as a reward.

Keep your eyes peeled on Insta for those cool “Before/After” house shots and also if anyone has any decoration guides or quirky life hack builds I’d love to see them, any and all inspiration is needed.

I Can’t Believe I am a Homeowner! MWAH!

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Happy Anniversary!

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We’ve been together a year now. Started seeing each other in September but October 11th we became official. I told all my friends about you. Share photos of us on Instagram and started to make many memories.

We’ve bought new people into our relationship, met some great friends and loved every minute of things. Even the dark times where we wouldn’t talk for a week or so. We worked through it, we have become stronger and still as much in love as when we first started.


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My main thank you, is to you guys, the readers, the followers, the friends I have made. This year has been amazing and I have loved what we have made here. I can’t wait to see it grow, to get better and even more awesome.

Honestly I never thought when I first started that I would have met such inspirations and amazing people such as: Maud, Abbie, Lauren – and then the #BlogVengers; Colin, Gareth, Elle, Annie. These are to name a few – I could go on forever naming all the gems in this blogging world. Basically if you are reading this, you are one of them! I am so thankful! I also want to thank the brands who have trusted me and given me the chance to work with them to promote their amazing brands. I have loved every chance I have had.

To the next year!

Catch Up: A Weekend Away

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Some of you might have noticed I have been very hushed this weekend. That is because I’ve been in Looe, Cornwall since Thursday Night. Enjoying the “Looe Saves the Day” music festival. Which was amazing!

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Picture this, Thursday night it’s a bit windy and a little rainy. But we set off. 7.45pm. Looking to get to our destination by midnight. Lovely stuff. As we set off. The Rain from Storm Ali starts to get worst until we find out part of the M5 is suffering massive delays. So we make a detour via Wales, add another hour and a bit on to the journey and we make it at 2am.

Me, my GF, her sister and Mum came down to Looe with the intention of going to LMF: Looe Music Festival. Which we bought tickets too in Feb. They had some fab bands lined up and it looked like it was going to be awesome! Until 3 weeks before when the LMF cancelled the festival due to money problems – clearly sold too many tickets and thought it better to line their pockets that pay for the festive. Great!

This didn’t stop the people of Looe as they pulled together to not let anyone down, or give their town a bad name and so in 3 weeks they raised 30k and threw together an awesome festival proudly called “Looe Saves the Day”.

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We spent three days, drinking Cornish ale, eating fine food and dancing to trendy cover bands, Cornish Folk bands and a Country Tex Mex Paul Young (yes the Common People, family man, Paul Young) and we loved every minute of it.

The streets were scattered with bands, musicians and entertainment that with the backdrop of the fishing village and seafront just made the whole thing really quirky, quint and sweet. With life as it is at the moment it was a much-needed getaway to just recharge, think of nothing serious, enjoy a beer, some music and the stunning views. If you ever get a chance to visit Looe I would highly recommend going. We stayed in a cute little flat, seconds from the beach, from the town and from the pubs. Which can be found on TripAdvisor to book for stays.


Check out my Instagram for more pictures, beautiful scenic shots and some more beer pictures. It was an amazing weekend, very tried today but time to power through. Autumn is finally here, which means, Coats, Scarfs, my birthday, the GF’s birthday, Halloween, Christmas Markets and CHRISTMAS! I love it.

Always a pleasure!


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It’s Ok!

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As the hands of time tick on. Closer to it’s destination I am left wondering . . . is this it? What have I done with my life? I have nothing to show for it.

But then I stumbled upon Gemma’s latest post about time (Find it HERE), it never being too late and the idea that there is no need to rush.

I spoke to me. Soothed me. There is so much I want to do with my life. I am not ready. I am not settled. I have so much time ahead of me. In the upcoming months a few things are changing which you’ll soon be allowed to know about. Then after that it’s the next step. What that is I don’t know. I couldn’t say. But it’ll be awesome anyway.

I’d love to visit Vienna. Finish writing a book. Spend more time smelling the roses and watching the sun rise.

Here is to life. It’s not over till it’s over and until that time. Make it your bitch. There is no rush or hurry to do anything. The sun will still rise tomorrow. If today you want to eat pizza and binge watch Sitcoms. Do it. Go for it. (Have a slice on me)

Just remember to be happy. Not to judge your life against anyone else’s and to dance like the whole world isn’t looking. No regrets.


Now for a smile – Here is my first ever Facebook Profile Picture – Circa 2007.

I know what you are thinking – but what was I thinking!


 

Where Have I Been.

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Some of you might have thought or noticed that my presence has been lacking of recent. If not then good – but I have felt it and I just wanted to take a moment to address it.

Life has just taken a toll and I have been occupied and busy with other aspects going on. Annoyingly I have wanted to keep up with blogging but it was the easiest thing to drop for a minute.

I can’t reveal what has been taken up my time just yet as it’s still all up in the air – but I wanted to drop a little “Hello, I am still here, I am ok” post to reassure the few of you missing me that I am ok. The support on twitter has been amazing as always and in due time I will be back and normality will be resumed.

On another note I won a twitter comp for some free banners and designs and this is the finished product. I love it! Check out the fabulous @Kellylianneart she is such a gem and talent.

Also I have been supporting the GF with a new diet. It’s a bit of a killer – the 16:8. 16 hours of fasting and eating nothing and then an 8 hour window to have a couple of healthy meals. Couple of days in and I am 6lbs down. So something is going well.

So that is a quick check in and catch up. Like I said more is to come. Once everything is in order and I can tell you about it then I will be back to normal.

But remember I love you all.